Couples Counseling & Sex Therapy in Westminster, CO
Stuck in the same fight? Sex feels tense, avoidant, or mismatched? Trust took a hit and now everything feels fragile?
I work with high-conflict couples, mismatched desire, infidelity, and open or poly boundary breaches. This is structured, directive sex and couples therapy focused on repair, clarity, and agreements that actually hold. LGBTQIA+ affirming and kink-informed.
Serving Westminster, Arvada, and the Denver metro area, with virtual therapy available throughout Colorado.
Free consultation available to see if we’re a good fit.
Specialized Relationship & Intimacy Services
Sex Therapy
Sex and intimacy can get stuck for a lot of reasons: mismatched desire, avoidance, pressure, pain, performance anxiety, porn-related conflict, or conversations that never go anywhere. I offer couples sex therapy to help you talk about sex clearly, reduce shame, and rebuild a physical connection that feels mutually wanted. We focus on practical tools for communication, consent and boundaries, and creating a sex life that actually fits your relationship, not a script you feel like you’re failing.
Infidelity & Betrayal Recovery
When trust breaks, conversations turn into interrogations, defensiveness, shutdown, and constant re-injury. I help you slow the cycle down, get clear on what actually happened, and build a structured repair process with real accountability. We work toward transparency, consistent follow-through, and concrete steps that rebuild safety over time, not just promises in session.
Open Relationship & Poly Boundary Repair
In open and poly relationships, the relationship runs on agreements. When those get fuzzy or breached, things spiral fast. We clarify what the agreements actually are, why they matter, and what “repair” needs to look like when there’s a breach. Expect clear boundary management, specific communication structures, and practical tools that reduce ambiguity, not vague “just communicate more” homework.
Individual Therapy for Relationship & Identity Concerns
Prefer to work one-on-one? I offer individual therapy when couples therapy isn’t possible, but the patterns in your relationships keep repeating. Whether it’s conflict, anxiety around intimacy, boundary confusion, or trust issues, we focus on what’s actually happening underneath the surface.
My approach is direct and practical. We identify the pattern, understand what keeps it running, and focus on changes you can apply outside the room. This work is structured and goal-oriented, designed to help you feel real movement between sessions.
About Adi Elinoff
Therapy is work, but it shouldn’t feel like a second job. At Under One Roof, my goal is to help you walk out of session with something useful, something you can apply immediately. I’m not here to nod while you spin in the same conversations. Sessions are collaborative and grounded in what’s actually happening in the room. We slow down, notice the pattern, and practice new responses so you leave with tools you can use.
My work is structured and active. Whether we’re doing couples therapy, trust repair, boundary work, or sex therapy, we focus on the patterns that keep you stuck and the specific moves that shift them. I integrate ACT, EFT, and the Gottman Method to identify the cycle, name what’s happening in real time, and build practical skills: communication that doesn’t explode, boundaries that hold, and repair attempts that don’t turn into another fight.
You don’t have to show up with perfect words or a tidy story. You just have to be willing to look honestly at what isn’t working and try something different. My job is to keep you focused, challenge what needs challenging, and help you turn insight into action, with enough space to breathe, laugh when it’s human, and leave feeling clearer than when you came in.
Schedule a Free Consultation
If something you read here resonated, that’s usually a good place to start. You don’t need to have the right words or a clear plan. Reaching out can simply be a way to ask questions and see what support might look like.
You can contact me to schedule a free 15 minute consultation or to learn more about working together.